Reflecting on Life’s Twists: From Ballet to New Beginnings - A Personal Journey of Change, Freedom, and Friendship

It’s wild to think that it’s been over a year and a half since I closed the curtain on my career at Richmond Ballet—a journey that spanned nearly four decades. Looking back, I’m filled with gratitude for everything that those years brought me: the thrill of performing, the honor of launching the Minds In Motion program, and the challenge of serving as Managing Director. Each role had its own magic, and together they shaped the person I am today.

But life, as we all know, is full of chapters—some we cling to and some we’re ready to turn. Deciding to step away on my own terms was liberating. I didn’t realize just how much the day-to-day stress of running a non-profit weighed on me, both mentally and physically, until I finally let it go. It’s funny how, when you’re in the thick of it, you convince yourself that you’re fine and push through. But stepping back has reminded me that our time is finite, and taking care of myself and my family isn’t just important—it’s essential. Self-care, as simple as it sounds, takes real courage.

So, what does life look like on the other side of a ballet career? In a surprising twist, I dusted off my real estate license and joined Maison Real Estate Boutique. I wasn’t looking for just another job; I wanted community, connection, and a sense of belonging. That’s exactly what I found with Maison. I’ve known Page George, the heart behind the company, for over 20 years. Her vision for the agency feels less like a corporation and more like a family—and that’s exactly the kind of energy I needed. Getting to know Page outside of the ballet world has been a joy, and I’m truly grateful she believed I’d be a good fit.

But if I’m honest, the biggest draw was my friendship with Phil Skaggs. Phil and I share a ballet background—though we danced for Richmond Ballet at different times, the pursuit of perfection and the drive that comes from that world is something we both understand deeply. Building a new business with someone who gets where you’re coming from has made all the difference. Phil took a chance on me and became an incredible mentor as I learned the ropes of real estate. I couldn’t have asked for a better partner in this new chapter.

Working for myself as an independent contractor has been a revelation. The pressures I feel now are the ones I put on myself, which oddly makes them easier to manage. Don’t get me wrong, ballet was my passion and I’ll always be proud of the career I built. But this newfound freedom—being able to shape my own path—has brought its own kind of satisfaction, especially when it comes to my health and well-being.

Of course, none of this would be possible without my family. My wife Annette deserves a special shout-out—her unwavering support and willingness to “make the bacon” while I ramp up my new business means the world to me. Real estate isn’t an overnight success; it takes patience, resilience, and a loving network of family and friends cheering you on.

As I reflect on all of these changes, I realize that life really is about embracing each twist and turn. Sometimes, letting go of what you know is the best way to discover what you truly need. I’m grateful for the journey, the friendships, and the chance to prioritize what matters most. If you’re facing a big change of your own, I hope my story encourages you to chase what makes you happy and trust that, in time, you’ll find your own rhythm again.